Nigerian men treat their wives as second in command, they expect their women to be there for them, answer when they call and they always want to make the final decision... not knowing how to cook is a serious crime in Nigeria.Men in Nigeria believe that a woman is responsible if she is good with domestic works while the ones with very little knowledge and domestic know-how are considered irresponsible A Nigerian boy is expected to leave his father's house at most by the age of 30, fend for himself and build his own home.How many a little girl have had to wash dishes and when asked if Junior can join her, have been told “No! ” How many a heart has been broken by those brown, twinkly eyes and wicked, dimpled grin?The countless “I’m sorry, I’ll never do it again” to the “It wasn’t my fault, she tricked me…into getting her pregnant!
” he is doted and waited on hand and foot by the female folk in the family…whether mothers, sisters, aunties and their girlfriends/wives are expected to pick up from there.In fact, he says they must watch and learn from them as they are “the kings of Africa”.“South African men should forget about the scare tactic of lying about drugs regarding Nigerians, our ladies discovered it’s a blanket lie.” Nigerian men know how to treat women; spending money on them instead of writing poems, according to him.The average Nigerian man believes in a family and the men are expected to take up all the bills at home. The man runs the home irrespective of 'how much' the wife is worth.The Nigerian man is a natural hustler, they go out in the morning and come back in the evening, they don't usually get fed up with wealth acquisition, that is the one thing American women seem to like so much about Nigerian men, - That they take responsibility and make sure their family as well as their woman is well taken care of.“Nigerian ni**as ain’t got time for poems, they give your girl cash and a good time. He does, however, say flowers are a good gift for your lady, only that without a bag or shoes, they will only work for a short space of time.