There are some folks who aren’t attracted to people of the opposite sex at all, but there are some gay folks who sometimes do find themselves unexpectedly and momentarily attracted.Especially when you’re involved in a creative endeavor, those sparks can flare up because when you do something creative with someone and it really catches fire, there’s just nothing sexier.” Clearing up Jamal’s sexuality, Chaiken adds, “We’re very clear that Jamal is gay and Jamal is clear that he’s gay, but it just happened.Now, Alicia tells Mashonda said the oppsite though in plenty of interviews, very public Twitter rants, and even on the reality show "Love & Hip Hop." Maybe the definition of "separated" is the issue. But still, Mashonda has maintained that she and Swizz had just had a baby and were still sexually involved and no papers were served when Swizz and Alicia started dating--she had no clue he wanted a divorce.
So, in my never-ending quest to smash all of the pointless (and often sexist) rules about what we should and should not be doing with our bodies, here are seven reasons it’s totally fine to have sex on the first date.
"It's kind of a love-hate relationship."Oh, and that cracked phone you’re waiting to upgrade?
Time to lose it, according to Fisher.“Singles don’t like people who have a cracked phone, or an old phone or those who use a clicking sound when typing,” she says, citing the survey.
"He is 39, a NYC attorney, and married for over 10 years with two kids. He was very clear — she didn't worry about whether they should sleep together or not. She was living in the moment and he loved being around her."“Anyone can talk a good game when it comes to sex, but there really isn’t a better way to figure out if you’d be a good fit with someone in the bedroom than actually having sex with them,” Figueroa says.
“Why wait two, three, or four or more dates to find out whether or not you’re both a good fit sexually? Most of all, try not to fixate about consequences we don't know will happen — anxiety kills chemistry — living in the moment is intoxicating."“Anyone can say that they’ll stick around after sex, but will they? “Personally, I’m a big fan of confronting a potential negative sooner rather than later, and there’s no better way to quickly determine if someone is only in it for sex than by having sex with them."“It really comes down to this: Would you rather someone leaves after sex on the first date, when you haven’t invested much into them, or after the fifth date, after you’ve invested weeks of time getting to know them?